Experts say it all: the reason why a person changes partners several times

Changing partners is a behavior that is seriously analyzed by psychologists and couples therapists , who have explained the reasons why an individual may engage in this type of behavior in their romantic relationships. What was the specialist's diagnosis?

In principle, this is an issue that could be linked to insecurity and even a lack of commitment on the part of the person who decides to end their relationship. However, from a social and mental health perspective, it is considered that this may be linked to individual freedom, although other groups maintain that there are difficulties in maintaining a stable bond. Regarding this issue, the University of Valencia believes it has to do with the attachments that develop in childhood, and other specialists even mention that it may be part of a facet of personal learning.

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Along the same lines, the Spanish Association of Clinical Psychology and Psychopathology is aware of this phenomenon and associates it with an internal search that a human being has to achieve well-being alongside another companion. What should you do if your partner changes his or her attitude?

Psychology and Mind on its digital site referred to this situation and stressed that in case of a change in attitude on the part of your partner you should analyze the situation calmly before jumping to conclusions due to the existence of different factors. 1- Try to stay calm and prevent mistrust from appearing in your relationship. 2- Be mature and avoid playing games to get the other person's attention.

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3- Be empathetic with your partner and put yourself in their shoes. 4- Analyze both of your behaviors prior to this event, which may be causing concern. Why is it that one person can rebuild their love life more quickly than their ex-partner?

Psychologist Natalia Vélez analyzed the situation that can arise after a breakup on her Instagram account and on this matter she remarked: " As I have said several times, each grieving process is different; some take weeks, months, and others years. When someone changes partners quickly it can be due to many factors," she indicated. Probably this type of behavior is based on the fact that the other individual does not know how to be alone, gets romantically involved to fill a void, has a need for connection, found compatibility with another person, feels a stronger attraction to a third party or may feel confused.

(See more: Many residents of this place are unaware that they live on a large mountain of Colombian gold.) “Real love, in most cases, takes time to build, so if this has happened to you, it's worth reflecting: Am I choosing consciously or out of fear of being alone?” he concluded.