Couple: How emotional tensions affect sexual satisfaction

Question: Dr. Simó, months ago, with my boyfriend I could have up to six or seven very pleasurable orgasms in a row during the first hour.

In recent months, we've had some disagreements and misunderstandings. We've grown apart , but we're trying again. I love him, but something has changed: I no longer feel the same way about him, I can't get pleasure from him the same way, and it's even hard for me. Why do you think this might happen to me?

Answer

Often, we have the answer right there, but we're unable to internalize what we feel. If you look closely, you'll see that you're telling me you've grown apart , that you've had differences, and that you're trying again without being able to overcome whatever's causing you to fall into crisis.

The central question would be: When the opportunity arises again, will they sit down to express their discomfort and seek a solution ? Without this, it's impossible to achieve harmony. They must change the things that are negatively impacting the relationship.

In addition to this, it's important to know if there's something else bothering them. Perhaps they're dealing with high levels of anxiety , pressure , or displeasure in other areas.

The important thing is not to look for someone to blame, but rather for each person to assume their responsibility and see, from their own perspective , how things can be improved without getting lost in the other.

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